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Sextortion is one of the fastest-growing online threats facing children and teens today — and many parents don’t realize how common it has become until it affects their own family. At Catch the Wave of Hope, we focus on prevention through education , and understanding sextortion is a critical step in protecting children online and in real life. This guide explains what sextortion is, how it happens, the warning signs parents should know, and what to do if your child is targeted. What Is Sextortion? Sextortion occurs when someone threatens to share private images, videos, or messages unless the victim complies with demands. These demands may include sending additional images, engaging in explicit conversations, or even providing money or gift cards. In many cases involving children, the person behind the screen is not who they claim to be . Predators often pose as peers — another teen, a gaming friend, or a social media follower — to gain trust before manipulating or threatening a child. How Sextortion Typically Begins Sextortion often starts subtly and escalates quickly. Common scenarios include: A stranger posing as a peer on social media or a gaming platform Friendly conversations that slowly turn personal or inappropriate Requests for photos or videos, sometimes framed as “trust” or “proof” Threats to share images publicly or send them to friends and family Children may be coached on how to delete messages, hide conversations, or move chats to private or encrypted platforms. Why Children Are Especially Vulnerable Children and teens may be more vulnerable to sextortion because: They are comfortable with technology and digital communication They may not fully understand the permanence of shared content Predators exploit curiosity, peer pressure, and fear of embarrassment Many children feel ashamed or afraid to tell an adult what’s happening This silence is exactly what predators rely on. Warning Signs Parents Should Watch For While every child responds differently, common red flags may include: Sudden secrecy around devices or quickly closing screens Emotional changes such as anxiety, withdrawal, or mood swings Increased device use late at night New social media accounts or messaging apps Requests for money, gift cards, or unusual payments Fear or distress connected to online interactions If something feels “off,” it’s worth paying closer attention. What Parents Can Do to Help Prevent Sextortion Prevention starts with awareness and ongoing communication. Parents can take proactive steps by: 1. Knowing Who Their Child Is Talking To Review friends, followers, and gaming contacts regularly. Every online connection should be someone your child knows in real life. 2. Monitoring Messages — Including Hidden Threads Check direct messages, archived chats, disappearing messages, and secondary inboxes. Many platforms have features designed to hide conversations. 3. Limiting Personal Information Children should never share personal details such as full name, address, school, birthday, or location online. 4. Using Monitoring Tools When Appropriate Parental monitoring software can help alert caregivers to concerning language or interactions, but it should always be paired with open conversation. 5. Talking Early and Often Make online safety an ongoing conversation, not a one-time talk. Let your child know they can come to you without fear of punishment. What To Do If Your Child Is Being Sextorted If your child tells you they are being targeted: Stay calm and supportive Do not blame or shame them Save evidence (screenshots, usernames, messages) Do not engage with the predator Report the incident to appropriate authorities and platforms Seek professional support if needed Early action can stop escalation and protect your child from further harm. You Are Not Alone — Education Makes a Difference Sextortion can happen to any family, regardless of age, background, or location. The good news is that education works . Catch the Wave of Hope provides parent trainings, community workshops, and school-based education to help families recognize risks early and take action before harm occurs. Take the Next Step Toward Prevention Protecting children online requires awareness, communication, and community support.  We encourage parents to: Download our App Safety Checklist for Parents Schedule a training for your school, organization, or parent group Stay informed as technology and online trends evolve Together, we can help prevent exploitation and build safer futures for children in our community — online and in person.